Dec. 19, 2022

Say This...Don't Say This

Over the last couple of weeks, we have addressed the topics: "Say This" and "Don't Say This" to your spouse. You can find our full discussion on Episodes 78 and 79 of "The Redeemed Marriage" podcast.

Some of you prefer to learn through the written word rather than the spoken word, so here are our short lists...

"Say These Things To Your Spouse" (say these things often):

1. I'm sorry and/or I was wrong

2. I love you

3. What can I do to help?

"Don't Say These Things To Your Spouse" (avoid these words or phrases):

1. Take the words "always" and "never" out of your vocabulary

2. Avoid the "D" word - Divorce

3. You don't make me happy anymore

Your words can either build up or tear down your spouse. Which list will you choose to speak from today?

Rusty and Heather